Cancer man: he says he loves me but he started using a dating/social site and lied?

Question

Something was fishy wiv him so i searched & found he started using this site recently & it said he's in a complicated relationship (we're initiating a relationship) he doesn't know i know...but i asked him does he consider or does he have a account and he said "no" and said that he was disappointed in me for thinking that.. most of all i was upset he lied. im freaking out bcos our emotional connection is so there and i never thought he'd lie that badly BUT there is a reason

i know he wants me to do more for us but my family are strict & doesn't know i love him..its even a problem for me to visit him from uk to the where he lives in the u.s.. he basically is the 1 holding our relationship together.. so I'm being easy on him on this... I heard Cancers are a loyal sign so will he still be in love with me if he keeps using this site and does he mean it when he says he loves/needs me?

on his interests it said meeting new people but he has mentioned he really wants me.. So why is he really using this site? is he falling out of love? Im considering on telling him that i am going to take risks to plan our future together but i feel like i have to know why he made this social/dating site thanks
im 21 he's 23

Answer 1

So he is betraying you by simply lying, and if he lies about this what else is he lying about? And if it is so easy for him to lie to you about this topic, he will lie again.

Please learn more about astrology, although some cancers will have a faithful trait, it is important that you realize that not all cancers will have that, afterall, remember that we are not just dealing with a sun sign, where is the rest of his chart, and where is mercury, as lying is a mercury thing, not a sun sign. Faithfulness is more Saturn than sun sign. And relationships are not based on the sun sign.

I would not encourage my daughter to be with a liar as how does one find trust with a liar?

Answer 2

I'm a Pisces male and I understand Cancer guys. We're both water signs. He is definitely into you and doesn't mean any harm. He just doesn't want to throw all of his eggs in one basket and risk everything with you because the situation is pretty complicated. You know? U in the UK and him in US is pretty long distance it seams. He lied about the online thing but all Cancers have that one white lie that they won't reveal. Don't be too upset at him, he needs stability close to HOME. That's all Cancer right there, the Home. You're not close to him home wise so it's extremely difficult

Answer 3

I am cancer female when I am in love with someone I don't see any other except for that person. Maybe he just has feelings for you while still looking for his soul mate.

Answer 4

cancers are f&cking creeps and weirdos!!!!!!



TOO STUBBORN, WHINES LIKE A LOSER. TOO WEAK BEINGS



No wonder he uses dating websites,, because only creep pedophiles use it