Kirsty:)
2013-09-19 03:04:39 UTC
- He is 24 I am 23. He is Scorpio man with Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars. I am Gemini sun, Gemini moon, Taurus Venus and Mars in Aries.
- We met 6 months ago through friends - hit it off instantly.. however he has a girlfriend.
- We kept things PG rated (obviously) for the first couple of months.. we only bumped into eachother a few times.
- After a while we could feel we really liked eachother. he took a break from his GF. in that time we hooked up. He realised he couldnt be with her any longer so he broke up with her.
- A few days later i left and moved overseas (he knew about it).
-We spoke ENDLESSLY for 3 months whilst i was overseas. Shared alot with eachother. safe to say we both were falling for eachother.
- He decided to come visit me overseas. Had an amazing time. on the last leg of the trip he was sad he wouldnt see me for a long time so he flew me to Amsterdam to spend one last weekend with me. He payed for the whole thing.
- 2 months later i had to move back home because of family issues. Upon telling him what happened.. he went strange. From that moment we hardly spoke (he used to msg me everyday without a doubt).
- Ive been back for a month now and we hardly talk.
-We were meant to catchup during the week but he didnt want to come down my end of town.. basically he was being a d*ck! So a few days later i cancelled on him.
-I deleted him off snapchat and instagram because i was just sick of seeing his face haha... and it felt like i could release a bit of hurt that way too. Anyway, the day after i did it.. i randomly went on his FB profile and he deleted me off FB!
- We both went to my friends birthday party last week, we were standing in the same group but it felt so awkward so i just walked off and chatted to another guy. Didnt see him the rest of the night. A few hrs after he left i sent him a msg "Deleted me off FB, must have done real bad!" and he said 'snapchat? instagram? i must have done bad too". I meantioned why i cancelled the catchup and he said it was a shi*t reason to cancel and he was really looking forward to it.
-The conversation went no where and it was just us being stubborn.
- I said what is happening between us, are we gonna catch up or just walk away and he said he thinks it is too damaged. So i said ok bye.. im not keeping him if he doesnt want to stay. But he kept messaging me back even after i said bye... almost like he was waiting for me to beg for him not to..
I've left out a lot of things but don't want it to be too long!
Is this typical scorp behaviour? I dont get how he could be so cold after he consistently told me how much he liked me and wanted to be with me! I was sometimes taken back with how intense he was. Should i contact him and break the ice or just walk away?