Question:
CAPRICORNS! Scorpio pursuing a Cappy guy. How Should I go about it?
anonymous
2011-02-01 00:20:32 UTC
I'm a Scorpio sun / Gemini moon / Scorpio Mercury / Scorpio Venus girl.

 I like this Cappy sun / Sag moon / Cappy Mercury / Pisces Venus guy. I'm 20, he's 26. 


Of course, he doesn't let me know if he likes me or not. But from the looks of things, I can tell that he does. He's very busy, I love the fact that he has his own life. when he's free he texts me, but I'm normally the one who initiates it. I really don't like pursuing but I will just to get the ball rolling if I like a guy enough.


Although, we are still in the "getting to know you" stage.. I'm very intuitive & know when the connections there. I can also pick on character traits like THAT!

So lately he's been more moody & I've given him space but the more I do, the longer we go without talking. =\ 

long story short, during the few times I've decided to give him this space, I sent him a very cheesy forwarded text. one that I knew he'd get a kick out of. & at the same time wanted to see if he was into me or not..

example:  

what can u see yourself doing with me?
A.) Dating / Being more than friends 
B.) Being just friends
C.) U see me as a sister
D.) Sex
Z.) I'm open to anything ur open to

He responded by first saying "I cant answer these, it may be a trap LOL" then asking me to answer it first & I did. I choose Z & so did he. I asked him why he said he thought it was a trap & he didn't respond. I'm assuming I annoyed him?!

apparently this was a FAIL! lol I don't wanna bug him by texting him everyday but I like him. alot. :( 

how do I go about pursuing him without annoying him?
Three answers:
iansand
2011-02-01 00:21:08 UTC
Sacrifice a goat.
Marina
2011-02-01 18:10:42 UTC
You don't pursue him. When a Capricorn male is interested, he will initiate and make all the necessary moves. You don't have to do a thing. You are coming across as too pushy. Capricorn males want to make up their mind about you in their own way and in their own time. Letting him know you were interested would have been enough....the text is pretty immature in my opinion, and probably his as well. Telling him you're open to just sex? Are you kidding me? Have some standards for yourself. Capricorn males appreciate a woman who knows who she is and knows what she wants and who will not settle for anything less. You left the door open for this guy to do whatever he pleases with you. Not smart. I would leave well enough alone. If he wants you, he knows how to find you. If he were interested, there wouldn't be gaps in communication and he would be getting in touch with you.
moonblazefire
2011-02-01 12:17:01 UTC
Give him some time and if he still doesn't respond, just start talking to him again about something different, like that one incident never happened. It will stay in his mind, and if he grows to like you, he will tell you.


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