Question:
How do i get a leo & a libra to understand me?I am a pisces.?
p&s is my favorite catagory!!!!
2009-07-03 16:33:31 UTC
My bf & his mother are extremely both stubborn & do not listen or understand me. I feel like they are on different planets. I just don't get it. I also have a friend that's a cancer & her bf is a aries. He also is a fire sign & is stubborn & don't understand her either. How would i go about doing this. It seams like i cant get them to understand me. Its like if i talk they don't understand my language or something. The libra which is my bf's mom shes very critical on me. Shes very judgmental. I feel like im being watched 24/7. I hate it. She is the worst. My bf was sick a few days ago & well we have parakeets & they can get noisy at times & i told her to keep them covered while her son was sleeping. But she insisted & wanted to uncover the birds. She wouldn't even let her son sleep. I just don't understand these 2 signs. I don't understand taurus's either though. Help.
Three answers:
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2009-07-03 16:55:38 UTC
Well I'm a Leo but as far as you, I know Pisceans can be very sensitive? Do you think you are making more out of it? Sometimes you have to ignore people. N if your bf is so stubborn and doesn't listen to you, you don't need to be with him.
tina
2016-05-28 07:25:29 UTC
If you want to understand the dynamics of your relationship with this Leo man, you should not use Sun signs. They just don't give the info you need. Instead, you will get two birth charts, one for you, one for him. Both calculated off of the full birth time, the birth time, and the location of birth. You will compare the aspects (distances, in specific degrees) between planets in your chart and planets in his chart. Based on the number and type of positive contacts between your two charts, vs. the number and type of negative contacts between your two charts ... you will arrive at a conclusion. As for this Leo's negatives, there is absolutely no such thing as a perfect person. Every person you could get together with will have qualities you love and qualities you hate, qualities you like and qualities you dislike. In the end, the only thing that makes a marraige work is the ability of both partners to accept their spouse just as they are ... trying to change your spouse so they are "better" or so they don't annoy you or make you angry never works. All the "work" is done inside your heart, to learn how to tolerate those things that you don't like about your partner. Therefore, it is recommended that people not move in or marry until they have dated for a minimum of 2 years, because things are not always obvious early in the dating. It is super-important that whoever you DO get together has faults that you think you can learn to accept. Because it always boils down to this: if you can't accept the other, you will probably lose the relationship. Here's your first two "assignments" (based on what you've said): (1) He doesn't express himself for a while, and in the interim, you go absolutely bonkers. Hon, you are either going to have to learn how to handle that so you don't go bonkers, or you will end up losing the relationship. (2) No relationship will make up for our own feelings of insecurity. In the first 2-3 years of dating, this is generally not a problem, but as the honeymoon period wears off and people relax more into the relationship ... the more you depend on him to reassure you, the more frustrated and frightened you will end up becoming, and that is followed by anger and fighting. So you are going to have to work on improving your self-acceptance, self-esteem and self-confidence. You will have to do this for any relationship you wish to keep. Rest assured, there will be more challenges for you ... and he will have his own challenges too. Remember that the change always has to be within ourselves, because we cannot change others. Good luck to the both of you ... it's a worthy effort and if you take on the challenges and succeed, it leads to both personal happiness and to marital happiness.
Josh
2009-07-03 16:42:49 UTC
It isn't a matter of zodiac signs, it's a matter of his mom being a rude *****


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