This question is for "Been There" & others who know how to interpret Synastry charts:?

Question

Hi "Been There", I know that you are a professional astrologist, I know how to read synastry because I've been studying it, but I want you (and anyone else who knows how to interpret Synastry) to interpret and deduce the relationship between my girlfriend & I. I need someone else's expertise besides my own to deduce the relationship is more positive & negative, from my interpretation it is more negative, that's why I want a 2nd opinion.

I am born 22 July 1993 in Maputo, Mozambique, 4:15pm
My girlfriend is born 06 March 1994,Florida, US, 1:30pm

Answer 1

A synastry readjng is complex and takes 1-2 HOURS of talking IN PERSON with the client.

There is no way I can do an interpretation for you ... and I am retired and not taking on new clients anymore.



Take EACH of the synastry aspects and google each one individually, adding the word "synastry" to your search term.

For instance, if you have your Mercury in a square aspect with their Neptune you would google "Mercury square Neptune synastry".

Or you could go onto amazon.com and buy a second-hand/used copy of "The Astrology of Human Relationships" by Sakoian and Acker .. a very good and thorough paperback.



You could also pay for a written report, but the information you get is just the same as googling for free, or buying the paperback book. Except you pay more for the report. The problem with all 3 of these is that you don't get it all put into a whole picture . you just get the bits and pieces



The other option is to pay an astrologer for a reading. ALL readings are done in a real-time format: in-person, over the phone, or on Skype. Demanding on how well-known the astrologer is (most clients are beginning astrologers), you will pay between $150 and $500 for a synastry reading.



MY suggesting is that you continue learning how to use astrology. If there is an astrological organization where you live, join it and attend meetings.



But remember this about synastry: there is always some negative (the squares and the oppositions) and always some positive (the sextiles and trines). The conjunctions are the strongest of all ...if between benefic planets always positive .. if involving at least one malefic planet, a mixed bag of positive/negative.

Understand that the negative aspects are what you two have to OVERCOME if the relationship will be happy.

That the positive aspects do not make the relationship work, but only keep you hanging in there trying to make it work.



And what MAKES it work is MOSTLY how emotionally-mature both of you are.

The more-easily you get upset by life, other people, family, etc .. the more-easily you will be upset by your partner too. In fact, NO ONE gets under our skin as easily as our life-partner does.

So emotional maturity is THE deciding factor. Along with honesty and trust. Dishonesty breaks trust, and a broken trust will never be whole again.

Love is only 11% of what makes it work.

Communication is 18%.

Shared values and interests are only worth 2%.

Answer 2

Bin Their "says" she was for decades, but you'll have to take her word. If this so important, go and pay a web site or an astrologer. They are trying to earn a living. Free advice is not always good advice.

Answer 3

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