are charts always right relationship wise?

Question

just because two peoples charts dont go together and shows that they wont last forever, does that mean it is always true? have any of you ever known someone or are in a long and healthy relationship with someone who "astrologically" wise arent suppost to?
Im in love with my boyfriend of a year and according to our charts it wont end pretty, some good insight please? :/
Here is my natal chart - born July 15, 1996 at 8:21 am in Miami, FL http://s1299.beta.photobucket.com/user/meaganbuche/media/daisy24.png.html?sort=3&o=1#/user/meaganbuche/media/daisy24.png.html?sort=3&o=1&_suid=1355348651644016405932292868647

Here is his natal chart - born September 23, 1991 at 10:41 pm in Milan, Italy http://s1299.beta.photobucket.com/user/meaganbuche/media/daisy24v.png.html?sort=3&o=0#/user/meaganbuche/media/daisy24v.png.html?sort=3&o=0&_suid=135534859776205833631369256678

Answer 1

You will not know, until you have lived together 2-3 years, just what problems the relationship holds. This the first basic truth of relationships.



Are charts always right? Yes and no.

No, because our birth chart does NOT control us. Our birth chart is an influence only, an indication of our natural trends and tendencies.

WHAT we do with ourselves is potentially under our own control, as a result of our own self-awareness.

In 40 years of doing charts, I can firmly state this: The more aware a person is, and the more they deliberate choose how they will handle their own inner realities ... the less they are like their chart. And the more automatically and thoughtless they live, merely responding to stimuli, the more accurately their chart defines them.



Here's the problem. It takes several decades to start to get a "handle" on our inner realities. Someone in their teens or 20's is not there yet. The Saturn Return, in between ages 28 & 30, is the first step towards cognitive living.

Until that time, the individuals are much more apt to follow their tendencies, to live their life as their chart indicates.

For that matter, not everyone steps into autonomous living. I've had clients in their 50's, 60's and older who were still living automatically.



So yes, the charts can be exactly right.

But no, it depends on you. You have free will, and the ability to guide your own life.

Just not likely when under 30.

And the marriage experts say that it takes a lot of emotional maturity to make a relationship work. They advise that until a person has lived on their own, independently and self-supporting, for a minimum of 5 years, that they are not likely to have the maturity to make any marriage last.

Answer 2

I don't think it is 100% accurate, any relationship can work if the effort is put forth in it to work, there are a lot of people that according to their charts shouldn't be with the person they're with, yet they make it work, in my opinion astrology plays a significant part in who we are but not the whole part, and it shouldn't be the determining factor in who one dates and or marry.

Answer 3

I have watched several videos on relationships ....



BEENTHERE (extremely true about "SATURN" 27_28_29 years of age!!!

Saturn hard work - hard reality- karmic energy Rules Capricorn Cardinal in 10th & Aquarius (FIRST) & uranus second ...

Growing up time (or NOT)

Focus on SCHOOL SCHOOL SCHOOL HIGHER LESRNING UNTIL 28 yrs old. No relationship WORTH you focus all your energy on You & your higher learning .. Force yourself. no guy worth wssting your energy on. TRUST ME. I AM NOT BITTER. GUYS are what they are UNDER THE AGE OF DAY 55 years old when Saturn Hits them again & they are all alone & do not know THE WHY ! Women usually get it quicker (ok thst is ONLY MY THINKING- not based on Facts- just my experience ok. My advice. Is what it is.



If you hav DELAYED MARRIAGE in your chart & you are Non MANGLIK - focuse on your higher Education only until 28_35 yesrs of age.

Make a difference in this world ... For you & others



Charts re time of birth are Maps to help us get to where we want to go , SMOOTHLY



THERE IS FREE WILL & then their is "Divorce" (or how about - ignoring intuition & red flags & stsying in a relationship that has issues that are not addressed or resolved



K.I.S. - keep IT SIMPLE



There are remedies .... Belief in higher power together & learning to respect boundaries .... Understanding differences & working issues out ...



An excellent astrologer will look at more than just a Score for compatibility.



Why do humans cheat? BiG Old Question ???

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjdpqb5soBE&feature=youtube_gdata_player

- their "needs" are not being met

- they are selfish & self centered

- their mind has not fully developed (28yrs & up)

- sex drive & style & desire are in a different direction

- bored easily



"MANGLIK" ? Yes or no?

Mars placement & position ?

Moon placement & position ?

Venus placement & position ?



Chart

http://www.vedicscholar.com/matchhoro.php

(click yes for daylight savings)

You will see your score after you put in #s





The guy I lik- we scored 17 out of 36

I understand our "issues"

all issues have solutions

Challenges - issues - differences

Yet our "Mars" are in complete compatability by 3 out of 4 points (sexual needs)

(we are both MANGLIK) is Good - we both givers - caring - empathetic



Its "what is" Most Important to me that is acceptable for me ....



The videos are re relationships

You focus just on what he is saying re basics of our "individual" desires & needs



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MaTBSK4Ndw&feature=youtube_gdata_player



timing of marriage

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q-nhvYkw8Z8&feature=youtube_gdata_player



Late marriage (35 yrs & up?) Never married & no kids?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRwsvSVALoc&feature=youtube_gdata_player





MANGLIK ? Compationate ? Or not (where others can get their feeling hurt & needs not met)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PAw3fSXx4d4&feature=youtube_gdata_player