Question:
is my cancer friend gay? ..he gets kinda a lil mad at me when i holler at women on the street?
anonymous
2012-06-29 10:07:43 UTC
while we're driving, and i don't even say rude things, i say normal sweet things, like "beep. excuse me miss, you are looking very pretty tonight" etc.. or if a chick is provocatively dressed and i make a smexual comment about her, he goes "why do you always do that?" and stuff...

is he gay?

oh and also he never gets laid. or atleast tells me so. in all of my time i've known him (4 years) he's only mentioned one time almost hooking up with a girl. almost. it didn't happen because of some lame excuse.. like the girl was throwing herself at him, and he just didn't do anything except caressed her hair.

oh and whenever we talk about chicks he never talks about doing anything with them, except going out to a restaurant and talking.. or coffee.. etc.
Four answers:
anonymous
2012-06-29 13:58:24 UTC
Hes probably not gay just introverted and takes time to open up with women.He gets mad because your acting RUDE to the women you call at, i Dont even think you deserve him as a friend hes to Captain America for you :P
Bryan L
2012-06-29 11:10:30 UTC
The reason that I'm answering this question is because I too have a Cancer friend that I thought the same thing about. I am an Aries and have always gotten along very well with Cancer guys but this one particular guy was a little more territorial and needy. You must first understand the Cancer. Cancers act a lot like the actual crab, once they latch on to you they are very hesitant to give you up. Cancer is also emotional. When a Cancer feels that you both connect on an emotional level then the claws clamp on. With that said those are the main general points from Cancer that I want you to take from this post. Now..... on the suspicion of your friend being gay you have to refer to his birth chart to say definitively whether he's gay or not. These are the ifs. If he has Venus in Gemini and Mercury in Gemini he could be gay. But the most telling sign is going to be his relationship with his father. If he grew up with an aloof father or without one all together then he more than likely has some latent homosexual tendencies. All in all you'll need to do some very indepth detective work on your friend to know for sure. IE Astrological chart and upbringing before you can really know the truth. You also could just ask him outright if he has feelings for men. My gut feeling tells me that he is. He just needs the right guy to lead him into it and make feel like its okay.

Hope this helps.
Jamie
2012-06-29 10:25:18 UTC
Sun square Uranus can indicate being gay,not being a Cancerian.Other than that,why dont you gently hint that you are not an ignorant bigot,and make him feel at ease with himself.After all,it is just a natural variation of human behavior:)
anonymous
2012-06-29 10:22:45 UTC
He is just sensitive and probably sees you as a sexist pig who only sees girls as a hot piece of ***. And probably not gay, but try to put yourself in his shoes, if you saw someone doing that, won't you be a bit angry? If he is gay, so what? That ain't yo bisness and shows you are a pig.


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