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2012-12-04 16:15:12 UTC
If I'm not dating according to her standards or "the rules" in dating world, she judges, criticizes, and with that turns into an arrogant SOB, and suddenly she's better. But what's funny about this capricorn is that bad karma always bites her in the a$$. She criticized a friend (behind her back, of course) about a new boyfriend who years later, ended up being her husband. She thinks she knows people's relationship (bc love is practical lol) and can comment on it bc she's right. Funny thing is that one day she suddenly broke up w. her bf. All the critiques she made about that friend about "what to do after a breakup", she never did. Funny, right? They were "it's complicated" for a while and "broken up" yet still continued to act as if they were in a relationship until they eventually just were together again. I never asked them bc I thought it was none of my business to pry, yet now that I'M in a new, happy relationship, it's my turn to get beatdown. Some days I want to call her out on it but there's no point; it only creates disharmony and she will never change. The only thing I did do was stick up for myself when she was putting me down and told her I didn't appreciate her judgmental attitude. Rather than wondering if she offended me w. her opinions, she focused on her and the topic turned to her "not being judgmental". Great friend.