What's more important to you,and what do you go for more looks or personality and why,and whats your signs?

Question

I'm a cancer/aquarius moon/libra rising,and i might sound kind of shallow but i like a guy who's very cute with a nice body,but is sensitive,and understanding too,and know's what he wants.

What about you?

Answer 1

Alright, I'm going to be honest. I'm shallow at first. Looks attract, let's just be real here. But ultimately, if you've got the looks and the thought process of a brick wall, I will have to terminate things immediately. I need a guy with wit, who can have verbal spars with me and not be offended, he will comfort me and let me know he's there no matter what, he will be intelligent, well spoken, funny, and light hearted. He will probably have a temper (which I don't mind as long as he controls it), but most of the time he'll be pretty loving, I can't deal with a guy who is afraid to challenge my opinions (how else will I grow if I can't see any other points of view except for my own) so I would prefer if he were always honest with me (that's mandatory, not optional in my relationships) and argued with logic. He would care about more than just himself, be independent, give me my space, but know when to smother me with love. He will have a pretty smile, and pretty eyes. He'll be silly sometimes but serious most of the time. He will probably like to exercise and get up and move around with me because he'll know I can't sit still for very long haha. :) And I will complement him perfectly.



Sagittarius Sun

Taurus Moon

Sagittarius Rising

Capricorn Venus





*Edit* Haha I sound a lot like you, sweeeeet :) You're cool so I can accept that compliment.

Answer 2

I'm going to be completely honest. Looks matter, but personality matters just a bit more. If chemistry has nothing to do with looks them okay maybe more than just a bit more, aha. I need to feel some sort of connection pulling me towards someone, the most gorgeous guy in the world couldn't win me over if there was none. Sure maybe I'd swoon or stumble a little bit..lol..but that doesn't mean anything! I crave a sense of oneness with someone, someone who can finish my sentences and I don't need to explain what I'm feeling. Beauty IS in the eye of the beholder..I could find someone attractive and another person might think he's not. So without both there really isn't going to be anything..



Leo/Libra Moon/Scorpio Rising

Answer 3

Personality.



Looks can only go so far. A beautiful, rude, impolite, mean person isn't going to impress me. I know that looks are important too, but not nearly as much as how that person really is deep down. I also want my person to be understanding, sympathetic, honest and compassionate, but tough to figure out at times. It's more worthwhile if you have to find the good in that person, to me.



If I had to choose, I'd say I want my person to look like any other ordinary human being, but dresses crazy. Either very expensive, designer clothes or a very mix-and-match wardrobe. Standing out in a crowd is very attractive.



Virgo Sun

Sagittarius Moon

Sagittarius Rising

Answer 4

LOL! It depends on the person - I have been attrated to some guys who were good looking but had terrible personalities - and I have been attracted to guys who had fantastic personalities with not so good looks....lol....I find something special in everyone - lol! ;)



Seriously though - I have even been so lucky a few times when their personality matched their looks (and vise-versa) - I just haven't been so lucky for any of them to work out - lol.....but if I had to choose someone to be my 'forever after' with then I would have to say personality! I want to be able to look at them and enjoy what I am seeing but looks only last so long and can only get so far - personality is far more important in terms of something long lasting (to me anyways).

Sagittarius



***EDIT*** I say this now but to be quite honest - lol - If I am not physically attracted to the person then it probably isn't going to get anywhere at all! ;) Just being honest!

Answer 5

Personality- tops and a nice body second. But he doesnt have to be good looking (his face). At least not for me, all of my friends always say I have a weird taste in men. I dont usually go for what the masses go for. If he's lonely and seems rather self sufficient, it's very likely I would take interest in him. And when seeing a bunch of guys hanging out in groups, I dont know why, but I would be most interested in getting to know, the shy and quiet one rather than the talkative and outgoing one. Hmm....weird, innit?



cancer sun, aries moon and aqua asc.



edit- lol Mr Pluto....it's very rare to meet somebody who admits themselves as shallow aka admitting their imperfections as openly. Must be the cancer sun! We can be self- deprecating at times, dont we? But honestly, I like to see this sometimes in man, well, not to the extremes, it shows he can take things lightly and doesnt put himself on such a high pedestal. This type of men, makes me feel comfortable being around him.

Answer 6

im a leo and i must say its all about the eyes. i don't know what it is but i fall for those with very epressive sweet looking eyes.

What i do not get is how much i do not care about looks, i mean as long as someone isn't butt ugly i realy do not care. oh and i do not like tall guys.

Personality is BIG with me. If i cannot connect, i won't give it a chance. i like sweet, somewhat awquard, funny people who love to laugh cuz that is all i do laugh.

oh but the deal breaker is their perceptions of life and politics. if we value and believe in different things it's all over.

Answer 7

I'm all about personality. I tend to like guys first by how they interact with me and those around us than later I notice their looks. Its really important to me to meet a nice/respectful/considerate/funny/adventureous/etc person so I notice how they act (I'm very observant and intuitive) first. ?Looks are secondary to me...I can take 'em or leave 'em. Though I'm not going to lie, they're a perk. ;)



I'm a Libra with a Cancer rising and Capricorn Moon. :)

Answer 8

Personality. Hands down.



I know this sounds weird, but physical beauty (in the traditional sense) doesn't do that much for me. The physical aspect of a relationship is important to me, but sexual compatibility is not about looks, it's about action and chemistry.



But yeah... personality. Intellect, manner, the way a person treats me and others. That's much more important to me than looks.



Sagittarius

Answer 9

I look for a woman who isn't looking.



Tropical: Sun Gemini - Moon Taurus - Ascendant Cancer



Vedic: Sun Taurus - Moon Aries - Ascendant Gemini

Answer 10

To me personality is pretty much everything, I get annoyed pretty easy with certain people no matter how they look. Though if I first meet someone and they are over weight, I usually assume that they are lazy, and I hate laziness. But they can persuade me, if they have the right personality lol

Answer 11

I just like the full package attractive mind, spirit, and body. Enough said. I think I am a little too ideal for my own good sometimes >:I

But, I also enjoy someone who has common interests! I can be deep too. XD



Aquarius/Leo/Aries

Answer 12

I tend to go for a mix of both. I like to work out, so I tend to go for guys who are active as well as a bit outgoing, but yet they keep to themselves.

I'm a gemini/saggitarius moon/gemini rising.

Answer 13

its really funny how aquarians are all about the body, for you you have it in moon



I am shallow too, theres nothing wrong with that, we are given eyes for a reason.. and i cant fight instinct, first instinct at least, but if we are gonna last for at least 2 seconds she has to be deep and have a great personality

Answer 14

i go for personality first i think. there's always that situation where i think a guy is really cute and i want to date him, and when i finally do, i get turned off by his attitude. so personality is definitely more important than just being good looking.

and i want someone who likes me for my personality and my mind, rather than just my face... that's just repulsive.

pisces/ gemini moon/taurus rising

Answer 15

i go for personality! i can be swept off my feet by someone that is so interesting i feel i have to be around them all the time! but i rarely find those kinda people unattractive. and well....they usually aren't!



so maybe it goes hand in hand for me...but if you go strictly for looks i think it's all up in the air. i dare not do that!



scorpio/libra/sag

Answer 16

i like to go for people with lots of energy, but seem deeply understanding.. looks are important because i know i have to be attracted to him overall, but it could be an attractive personality too :)



cancer sun, scorp moon, aqua rising

Answer 17

Personality: honest, smart, cute, caring, loving and active



Honesty comes first for me because without it, i doubt any relationship could last long

Answer 18

i go for personality



though sadly i get my opinion of personality through how i see it



which makes me seem shallow but I'm not



gemini sun

capricorn moon

leo rising

Answer 19

i like your moon, i would say i go for friendship and fun, if i feel i can make like something useful or something that is going to last or make me comfortable with some people i really like to be with them to support them and have fun and then i like to protect them and take care of them..... i need limits that i know well... and i apply them so i would go to personality and look, i really join them together. i think all people are special and i welcome everybody i have to learn something but not many people are like that and i don't like that.... a lil bit talking before sleep........... good night!

Answer 20

looks capture the eye...but personality captures the heart:-)

I look for someone who is a good listener,understanding,honest,trusting,good sense of humor(those are the basics)...honestly some may say Im picky,but really...I just know what I want.

Answer 21

talking from experience i have dated a guy who was good looking but missing something upstairs.the relationship was monotonous and boring.the guy had absolutely no skills.so my guy has to have skills and he doesn't have to be good looking or what so ever.