How to fix incompatibility between signs?

Question

I always find sites about "who is my best match" but I rarely see sites or books about how to work through incompatibilities with people of ALL signs.

Are we really supposed to ignore one half of the zodiac? Is there any good information about how to change incompatibility into a workable relationship/friendship/business relationship?

Perhaps its just me being an idealistic Sag, but I find it insulting sometimes when people online belittle the combinations of the signs of the people in my life. You don't chose who your family is, or who you love...these things just happen.

Answer 1

well i think there is good and bad to every combination..

you could try reading their other signs

moon signs, venus, mars etc..

getting to know that persons sign very very well will teach you how to respond to them and what to expect from them.. also how they work, which will help any arguments.

i've found that some of my most "incompatible" signs are the ones i relate and get along the best with.

Answer 2

Some relationships just don't improve no matter how much you work at them. Some on the other hand can't go bad no matter how much you neglect them.



Most are in between!



Similarly there are very few chart combinations that are completely positive or completely negative in regards to compatibility. Most of them are somewhere in between. When you get a compatibility reading done by someone worth getting one from they will identify the CAUSES of the strengths and the weakness in the compatibility. You can use that information to help you fix or improve the weaknesses by regular means. And if you have approached many astrologers, such as Vedic Astrologers they will also provide you, in addition to psychological and counseling remedies, with metaphysical remedies to incompatibility - involving gemstones, mantras, colors, numbers, etc.

Answer 3

Well, I totally agree, that's why no offense, I don't believe in astrology. I mean, yes, it's fun and all, and sometimes it can be true, but how also can they decide to stereotype 12 kinds of people in this whole vast world? Sure, there are other aspects and plantets, and being an aquarius, I guess I know what you're talking about idealistically, but when you said you don't choose to love your family, I don't know if I agree with that. Sure, we're probably over thousands of years been biologically inclined to naturally love our family, but that's not always the case.... and vice versa....anyways, yeah, I believe we weren't all meant to get along, those people teach us and challenge us... but we sure need some sanity relationships...lol! Yes, it can be insulting when reading the online so and so vs, so and son combinations, but hey, we don't ignore them, we just go about our daily lives, and so what if it can't work out? I mean, o.k., really, it would be nice getting along with them, but I'm definitely not going to bore myself, or change my character to get along with them. For example, I find it very hard to get along with pisces, capricorns, cancers, scorpios, and tauruses, some virgos. So, what do I do? I keep my ground, even if it hurts me inside. I'm sorry to break it to such an optomistic Sag like you (one of my best friends is a sag) :) but there will probably never be a web site that shows how to fix the incompatibility. They only mention on online that maybe if aquarius tried being less distant, and more open, blah, blah, blah. They make aquarians look like ice cold stones and saggs look to lost and loose, not structured, and that is just so wrong and stereotypical. Sorry, for raining on your parade, my Sag friend, but I would rather know the truth. Good luck with how you deal with half of the signs in astrology. ;)

Answer 4

All good books on astrological compatibility should explain how to make a challenging relationship more workable - have a look at Robert Hand's book on composite charts, for example.



On a populist Sun sign basis, read Linda Goodman's "Love Signs".



Basically, astrology can't tell you IF a relationship will work, only HOW it will work.

Answer 5

I've really put an eye on that cancer + aquarius, because I know SO many. It is also weird that I myself have a cancer rising, and seems to attract many aquarius too? Is there an answer, really? And also the scorpio + libra, I really think its a weird combi, and it never works out, though it happens a lot. But I've noticed that if you take any earth sign, they have an attraction on the fire sign that comes before it, like - virgo/leo, cap/sag, taurus/aries?

Answer 6

hey :D



the best way to fix any relationship is good old fashioned talking [:



doesn't matter what your sign is, if you talk about it, then you can better understand the other persons point of view, and try and fix what they don't like or what bothers them, and they can do the same for you :D

Answer 7

Part of the problem is I don't think you can fix "fixed" signs.