Horoscopes: Gosh! Frustrated with some of my aspects?

Question

In terms of relationships? Are the "bad" ones just there and you can't really fight them? Or does it just take perserverence? I see glimmers of the good aspects in myself but its like the bad overpower them before the positive ones take effect. I try hard to change the negatives, does time only change this? I hope this doesn't confuse anyone.

Firstly, these are my planet placements:
Sun in Pisces (8th House)
Mars in Taurus (11th house)
Venus in Aquarius (8th house)
Mercury in Aquarius (7th house)
Moon in Virgo (3rd house)
Ascendant is Cancer
Pluto in Scorp (5th house)
Neptune, Uranus, Saturn in Capricorn (6th House)

K here are my aspects:
Moon trine mars
Moon sextile asc
Moon trine neptune
Moon trine saturn

Venus square pluto
Mercury square pluto
Mercury trine jupiter
Mercury sextile midheaven
Mars trine saturn

Mars trine neptune
mars sextile asc
Mars conjunct jupiter
Mars opp. Pluto
Venus square Mars. :(

I was reading a couple meanings/interpretations and they're so true! Like, dead on accurate. I act too fast when it comes to physical attraction, and develop feelings that are real, but after talking to them I realize they're not what I'm into in. Its so much of a conflict. I try not to have a defeatist attitude towards this but its kinda heartbreaking. I'm always wanting someone to be with, but this cycle is frustrating. I was in a really good relationship but stupid me gets bored when I'm treated well. And the relationship was long distance. Go figure.

Sorry so long!

Answer 1

You need stressful aspect if you want to build your character and make something out of your life. Whether you have oppositions or squares, you will either have to compromise and find equal balance with the oppositions or face the squares and resolve them. If you don't resolve the stressful aspects, they will keep expressing negatively instead of constructively.



As I posted once in an answer. The energies of the Square aspect are released when the aspect is resolved. You need to overcome them in order to achieve. The reward of any square aspects is the following aspect which is a trine. That is what awaits you and that is your reward. The conflict is symbolized by both the house and sign location of the squaring planets.



Ex Venus in 8th square Mars in 11th house. You would derive the most benefits from a carerr that requires you to deal with people and their needs. From Mars standpoint, you have strong physical desires and you do whatever is necessary to satisfy them. You are willing to make sacrifies to serve your best interests later.



Enjoy

Answer 2

The 9th house deals with beliefs and opinions. Having any of these planets in the 9th house can help: The Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Uranus and/or Neptune. My mom has four planets in the 9th house: Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 9th house, along with Uranus in the 11th house. She is definitely hard core tolerant of other people. She even accuses me of being intolerant sometimes, and I myself have Sun and Mercury in the 9th house! I think a strong and well-aspected Jupiter and Uranus might indicate someone who is tolerant of other people. However, they still may not tolerate people who believe quite differently form them, and I mean people who they may see as unsophisticated and ignorant. Which people are not tolerant? I am thinking Saturn and/or Pluto in the 9th house. If someone is a bleeding heart liberal and has these placements, then he/she is very intolerant of anyone who is not a bleeding heart liberal. The same can be said for a gun-totin' Bible reading conservative with those placements. Have fun when you see the two of them debate. I would actually like tot see two people with Pluto in the 9H debate. That would be funny. Because they know they can't change each other's minds. Anyway, Saturn may just make someone more conventional with regards to 9th house matters, and somewhat narrow minded. But I think Pluto in the 9th is worse when put in the wrong person. Pluto in the 9H may make someone try to force their belies down other people's throats and they never may think they are wrong. Sag sun Leo moon Sag 10H, Uranus in the 10H

Answer 3

It all the depends on the astrologers interpretation,and your faith,or lack of faith in that interpretation.Then it's up to you for the application.

Answer 4

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