Would two Cardinal signs often fail at romance because?

Question

One always wants to be the initiator.. And while one of them is leader of their affections the other becomes bored or disinterested?

In a situation of cardinal signs dating, I noticed that simetimes one of them will cause a drift or separation so that they can be in charge and pursue the other again. Ie: Capricorn men, Aries, Libras, Cancer..
(Maybe it's especially th case if their sun squares or opposes their moon natally and emotions keep fluctuating.)

BQ: Is it better for Cardinals to date Fixed or Mutables?

Answer 1

I've dated all of the Cardinal sign men and we clashed because I found them all to be passive and boring. I pretty much am going to go out on a limb and say they thought I was an A Whole and bossy lol. Now, number one I'm an Aries so I find males of all signs to be very subservient to me to begin with. Cardinal sign men I don't peg as easily bossed around but compared to an Aries female they are. I dislike the Cardinal males', " Oh I'm always right" attitude. And then I berate them and they quickly change their mind.



Aries men I've found to be the most irritating and I steer clear of them now with good reason. Too much Cardinal, I'm the Boss ego between us and I every Aries man I've dealt with that liked me I just couldn't stomach their smug behavior. Libra and Cancer men I think are sweet and romantic, not that bossy but too passive. I actually only view Capricorn men as my Cardinal Counterpart, if there is such a thing... They are self confident and their "bossiness" doesn't come off whiny like Cancer and Libra men, nor does come off as prickish like Aries men. They have this controlled calm about them that I like.



As for the initiator thing, eh, I don't like to be chased nor chase, I just like us to be casual like a buddy buddy type of thing. Usually when a guy pursues me hard I get turned off, and I refuse to chase men, so I don't consider myself to be the initiator either.



Now, Cardinal Mars signs is another story... You put two of those together and there's gonna be some trouble a brewing' in THAT relationship. Lucky me, I have Cardinal Mars too ;)





Oh BQ: I don't know, that's something of personal preference and of course you need to look at the Moon and Venus signs. I adore the personalities of Gemini and Sagittarius men but they aren't all too trustworthy IMO. The only males I genuinely like and get along with well from Fixed are Aquarius. Me personally, I'll take any of those three over Cardinal males any day.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I think it is very important not to place so much emphasis on sun signs for relationships, as they truly are secondary. As for cardinal signs, I have seen many aries/capricorn combos that work, and they all are in long term relationships. Also Libra and Capricorns I find can work as well. The interesting part, is usually when they are in cardinal, it switches from being the initiator to the receiver. The combo in cardinal that I do not see often is aries and cancer, and usually they do not work. Often this could be associated with the Cancer having too much leo in the chart clashing for dominance. hmmm... must be that 50 shade of grey thing. Fixed can also work well together. The one tripicity that does not work well or last long are the mutables, not enough stability I think.

Answer 4

Dont decide if cancer and scorpio get along only based on your "sun" sign.. the horoscope that we all read in the morning is based on your "sun" sign, that means the position where the sun was where you were born. Also we have an ascendent that is the position where the moon was at the "time" you were born.. thats why you can put two cancers together in a room and they both can have completely diferent personalities... Not only those two thing influence your personality.. also your name (the melody of your name influences you) the number that your day of birth ocults (numerology) and more stuff like that.. Just as an example.. I had a boyfriend that he was Aries and I am Virgo.. everybody said we will never get along because he is a fire sign and I am an earth sign... suppossedly he will get bored with me with time... to the contrary.. we were together for 5 years and I had one of the greatest times of my life with him.. we didnt marry because of another external situations but we are still friends and we still believe that the connection we had not everybody does... Believe in what you feel and what future you see to that relationship.

Answer 5

Wow. Finally someone has the same question I v been asking for years. I have been observing these signs, and I'm still learning. Heres the answer:If you are a Cardinal man the best to date is fixed women such as Taurus, Leo, Scorpio,and Aquarius. Fixed women always attracted to Cardinal men. If you are Cardinal man dated Cardinal woman is not going to work. It will be boring, less connection in terms of relationship.



If you're a Fixed man-the best to date is Mutable( Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces) women. Mutable women always attracted to Fixed men. They love fixed man. However, when fixed men is being approached by mutable women. Many of fixed guys are going to says " she so easy" " I need challenge". Fixed men dated fixed women - its fine. ITs okay. Fixed signs are always going to be hard headed. Fixed men and Cardinal women are not going to work. Cardinal women don't like hard headed men. There's a possibility of small percent that is going to work.



Mutable men always best to date a cardinal women.Yes, if your already have relationship with cardinal woman, Please stay with her. You never know. You can probably marry her. But its no no when mutable man dating a fixed woman. It's not going to work. Fixed woman are always attracted to Cardinal men.



Now you know the answers. But the question is which year are the best for your sign. Im still working on that Chinese Zodiac signs.

Answer 6

You know, planets in Cardinal signs CAN be trine to each other (such as one planet at 2 Aries and the other person's planet at 29 Cancer)



My in-laws have been married over 65 years, still very much in love, very easy-going and strongly bonded with each other. He has Sun in Aries, she has Sun in Capricorn.

As a matter of fact, 4 of his planets are in Aries, and 3 of her planets are in Capricorn.



My Sun-in-Cancer husband was married to his first wife for 15 years, and he said they worked very well together. His 1st wife had Sun in Aries.

He has 3 planets in Cancer, and she has 3 planets in Aries.



No ... it is NOT the signs that determine compatibility. It is the aspects between the two charts. And VERY importantly, you need to have one person's Ascendant or Descendant making a conjunct aspect with the other person's Sun or Moon or Venus or Mars.

Answer 7

i think its libra and cancer. They are after two totally different things. i have been in a relationship with a libra, and he was the initiator and i became disinterested in his light hearted ways to approach lovemaking. of course we were 13, and there was no love making, but he was trying with words haha. Also, it could of been our immaturity :b



I'd prefer to date fixed because trust is a big thing to me.

Answer 8

You've really strayed off the path of actually learning astrology.

Answer 9

If Egos Clash , Then It May Not Work ..

Answer 10

capricorn & cancer = absolutely!!

aries & libra = yes

libra & cancer = maybe....

aries & capri = maybe, a lot of action

aries & cancer = oh hell......

libra & capricorn = absoluetly pointless