This man's vivid imagination and sensitivity (matched in intensity only by fellow water sign Cancer) will endear him to you quickly. Pisces' greatest strength is their creativity. Neptune makes them brilliant at expressing themselves in symbols and gestures. They therefore they make outstanding film makers, photographers, and dancers. Their empathetic nature will make you fall in love with him quickly, for it is possible you've never met a man who knows the inner you so well.
Your Challenge
Pisces sometimes loses himself in his work, especially if he's in a creative field. He needs a regular outlet to express his powerful emotions and insights on the world, so you will have to learn to be supportive of his efforts. At times he can be hard to pin down, but this is usually due to his not yet having made up his mind about an issue. Being a dual sign like Gemini, he likes to look at both sides of every situation before taking a stand.
How To Handle Him
When trying to persuade a Pisces man of anything, do not use facts or logic; appeal to his emotions and intuition. If you press any point too hard or become demanding, he will swim in the other direction. He is gentle to others and expects to be treated in kind. He hates ruts and constricting routines, so a free-form schedule in life is more to his liking.
Another important fact to remember is that Pisces will give freely of himself whenever he can, but if he feels he has been taken advantage of, he will retreat without warning. At that point, it is hard to win back his trust. The Pisces man needs to be appreciated.
This man is not materialistic or money-oriented--don't bug him to ask for a raise or question why he doesn't make more money. He realizes that possessions and money are only earth-bound, temporal things that don't matter much in the grand scheme. He is too spiritual to be concerned with such mundane matters. A deeply philosophical sign, money does not motivate him as much as self-expression and creativity do. (Money does have a way of finding a way to Pisces, nevertheless, so don't think this is a sign doomed to poverty!)
Since Pisces reads body language better than any other sign, don't be surprised if he just seems to know much more about you than you've ever told him. Of course, verbal communication is important too, but keep it delicate and poetic. When delivering criticism to him be diplomatic rather than direct. Pisces men never like anything too gritty and hard-hitting.
Things To Do, Gifts To Buy
An ideal evening to a Pisces man would be to have dinner in an exotic Indian or Asian restaurant, and have a double espresso afterwards in a tiny, dark patisserie, debating a particular moral or ethical issue until the sun comes up. Or take him to the movies--he can't seem to see enough of them.
Since Pisces rules the feet, why not delight your man by surprising him with some special peppermint foot cream and a relaxing foot massage? Their feet are the first area of their body to show signs of stress. Now, the Pisces man's first instinct is to pay attention to you first, so he will have to get used you lavishing attention of him. Be sure to tell him just looking at his body is a wonderful turn-on for you; the Pisces man has less vanity than most signs and may be surprised to hear you say this! Although he may not appear to need it, if you bolster his self-confidence in the bedroom he will turn into a dream lover for you!
A lush tropical island resort would be the perfect locale to seduce your Pisces beloved because he will feel refreshed and uninhibited near bodies of water. On the appointed day, tell him you've packed a picnic lunch and drive him out to the prettiest waterfall you can find on the island (do your research first). Bring along your Polaroid camera (Pisces rules photography) to capture some of the fun. Wearing only a thin T-shirt and string bikini bottom, dare him to follow as you run under the falls. Let yourself become totally drenched, hair and all. Do all this quickly to capture the element of surprise and allow him a moment or two to stare at you in your clingy, now see-though T and skimpy bottom, laughing and beckoning him to join you. Do you honestly not know how this scene ends?
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Aries and Pisces
Pisces long for strength in a lover and you can easily provide this, Aries. Pisces is a tender sign, directed outward toward the world in a creative and self-sacrificing way. They don't want to make the decisions all the time and will gladly hand over the reins to you. Their minds and spirits are often elsewhere, not locked into the mundane task of living. You will be continually astounded at their willingness to help others but horrified at how the world can take advantage of them. When you point this out, your Pisces will nod in agreement but respond by saying that it's a small price to pay. They deal with a higher good, but this is a hard point for an Aries to understand. Being the first sign of the zodiac, your role is to say "Me first!" But Pisces is the last sign of the zodiac, and therefore a combination of all the other signs that came before. In a nutshell, Pisces rules universal love.
Some say Pisces are old souls, having been through all the other signs previously, and have a great inner light. What matters to you probably won't matter to them, for they deal on a spiritual plane that is difficult for you to relate to. Still, they adore your spunk, high spirits and salty view of life and know they can count on an honest answer from you if they ask. Don't be too critical of your sweetheart, Aries, for he or she may have a key to human nature and a view of suffering that eludes you.
Pisces will not be too demanding or clingy, for they have their own creative path to follow. They will enjoy their time with you, look forward to the parties and dinners you set up, and then be content to drift away into their own sphere again to refresh themselves. Since they are such sponges for other people's problems, they have to rinse themselves of other's cares once in a while. They can't recharge their inner energy when they are out about. One Pisces says, "When I am under stress, I imagine I have crawled under a banana leaf, somewhere near water, where no one can find me." Pisces hide until they instinctively know they are strong again, ready to shoulder the worries of the world. There is something magical, philosophical, and deep about Pisces, which you can only sense but never really know. If you dip into their limpid pool, you will be fascinated with the world you enter, for it will be a world of Pisces' making, not the one the rest of the world knows.
You are in for a dazzling experience when you make love to your Pisces. Love is enchanting to Pisces, and they still believe in happily-ever-afters. They hope their lives will be like story-book fairy tales, and, if reality rudely intrudes, they'll be surprised and taken aback. Even years after marriage, they want to be wined and dined, cherished, and most importantly, deeply loved. Your motives and attentiveness means heaps more to a Pisces than any technique you master in bed. If your feelings are in the right place (and believe me, Pisces will know), the sex will be heavenly. If you are into lovemaking as recreation, look elsewhere, for Pisces will not respond. This sign reads body language exquisitely, and will always know your true intentions. Pisces will at times wonder why you can't seem to fathom their emotional depth and return their intense affection. Being a fire sign, you don't have their emotional spectrum, which they will vaguely notice missing in you. Nevertheless you can be the lucky recipient of their undying devotion. Pisces realizes that most will never fully understand them.
Treat your Fish with care. If you hurt them, they will swim away without warning or confrontation, never to return. Their survival instinct is very strong, and once they realize a relationship is wrong for them, they have to rid themselves of it like a toxic poison. But treat them the way you would want a lover to treat you, and they will reveal to you the whisperings of the universe and honor you with their greatest gift: pure, unconditional love.